tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-48217443536134462332024-03-13T13:24:26.813-07:00The Road Less TravelledAfter the poem by Robert Frost. Because I took the harder path and live to tell the tale...Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-31059100051652351352017-07-12T22:09:00.001-07:002017-07-12T22:09:54.714-07:002 blue ticks<p dir="ltr">When a relationship <br>
Has distilled down to 2 blue ticks</p>
<p dir="ltr">Communication <br>
<u>Or</u><br>
Desperation</p>
Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16342187642205074411noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-53471027391807683932017-07-12T22:01:00.001-07:002017-07-12T22:04:32.792-07:00Silences <p dir="ltr">Silences </p>
<p dir="ltr">We try to fill them<br>
With justfications, words<br>
Anything that will kill the pain <br>
Of not knowing...</p>
Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16342187642205074411noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-83066787474971173082011-06-23T13:53:00.001-07:002011-06-23T13:53:52.050-07:00On wordsI was just reading a friend's blogpost on profanities a few days ago and I started thinking. I never use profanities because I find them distasteful coming from a woman's mouth. Or to be absolutely clear, I use them in my head but never utter them out loud (an emphatic Fuck/fuck it/fuck her /him uttered to myself can go a long ways to letting of steam). But sometimes they seem so much cleaner. Because a profanity uttered out loud is infinitely honest in comparison to untrue words. Like a wound allowed to bleed clean, it frees the one that uses it of negative energy and does not carry the putrefaction of negativity that festers with false assurances that one is not angry. <br />
<br />
And then I thought, pofanities are just words at the end of the day. It is how you utter them that makes all the difference. The right inflection and they can go from disgusting to sexy, abuse to endearment. Much like words. And by that measure words can become profanities too. Like a necklace of beads, words strung together aesthetically on a beautiful thoughts can be poetry and inspiration. But haphazardly impale them onto a string of negativity and they can be weapons of abuse and degradation. Ironically both can outlive those who utter them, outlive existence itself...<br />
<br />
Once allowed to see the light of day, they become messengers for the people that use them. Carrying love, hate, inspiration... But we who utter them often forget that they also become ambassadors. Carrying the additional hidden message of impressions; good bad and ugly. Impressions that are often bigger than the words because they are dependent on those who receive them to attain their final potential. Received right, words will convey messages to perfection, realizing the reason for their existence. Received wrong, however, they have the potential to destroy. Those who realize this power of words are writers of worth. And for them words unfurl themselves in their full glory.<br />
<br />
But words and profanities, unuttered, unwritten are unconceived dialogues that will only give birth to blank pages, empty silences... it is in their diliverance that the true meaning of their existance lies...Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16342187642205074411noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-16319668629387357422011-03-23T13:59:00.000-07:002011-06-24T00:22:38.983-07:00Beyond the wallsSomething I wrote a long time ago<br />
<br />
Beyond The Walls<br />
<br />
When the time to leave the security of the four walls came, I blindly followed the dictates of my mind. For a while I oscillated, one part of me regretted having to leave when I could have stayed; the other part patted me on the back for having taken such a difficult step. Then one day I woke up to the fact that I could not expect to move forward when I had one step in the past. <br />
<br />
There’s a familiarity about the “clang” of school gates when they close behind you for the last time, but I am not here to take a walk down memory lane. I shall leave that to the movies where the clang is more often than not coupled with a “THE END”. What I am here to do is testify that this clang is a beginning too, to tell about beyond the walls …<br />
<br />
My mind goes back often to those to the friends of those lovely idyllic days. Loyalty to your class – Unity was all-important then, friends were to die for and it was easy to promise forever. Beyond the walls I found different friends, the hang around when they need something kind, the use and lose kind, the loyal kind, they all came and some of them stayed and each of them left a legacy that molded me into what I am. <br />
<br />
You don’t leave behind teachers either. Beyond the walls there is always a twist on the road where you will meet someone who will teach you a new lesson. An urchin girl – with barely enough clothing on to her covered taught me that if you want even a simple piece of can turn into a crown. <br />
<br />
School days never come back. They can’t be recreated but inside those walls I learnt the things that will help beyond those very walls. Those walls that we felt grew every year, they represented jail and we likened ourselves to prisoners, each with our own number, but today 146 is like an omen of good to me and it’s presence works towards making or breaking a situation.<br />
<br />
Beyond the walls lies a life just waiting to be embraced, new experiences, a stretching of the wings as it were. Learning that you can do it. Depending on yourself. All those races at school that disappointment in the loss, that exhilaration in the win. We’re the same runners, the prize is as important. Only the race is different. We still cry when we lose, are ecstatic in our wins. We still make mistakes. <br />
<br />
And when life gets a little to tough to handle, I can always go back into myself…In me, where I carry that magical place “Behind The Walls”.Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16342187642205074411noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-64623633922301328542010-06-14T01:38:00.000-07:002010-06-14T01:38:15.066-07:00It was<br />
<br />
a hidden tune<br />
I was humming<br />
to myself...<br />
<br />
You<br />
drew it out<br />
from<br />
under my breath<br />
onto the open air...<br />
<br />
And then closed<br />
your ears to it<br />
there it hangs<br />
poised<br />
with no one<br />
to hear it<br />
<br />
~ RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-73002005053493228572010-05-07T04:24:00.000-07:002010-05-07T04:24:23.852-07:00MotherhoodYou came along<br />
<br />
and ripped open<br />
the curtain<br />
to my soul<br />
<br />
I had it<br />
safely hidden<br />
protected, nurtured<br />
and whole<br />
<br />
now<br />
its out there<br />
exposed,<br />
vulnurable,<br />
and in control<br />
<br />
already<br />
I feel<br />
pieces readying<br />
to part<br />
<br />
a revolution<br />
is poised<br />
to take over<br />
my heart...<br />
<br />
but<br />
this was<br />
meant to be...<br />
..destiny<br />
<br />
the time was right<br />
i was ripe<br />
to give<br />
the positive<br />
<br />
to nourish<br />
your path<br />
with bits<br />
of my heart<br />
<br />
RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-78441579480834922332010-05-06T01:17:00.000-07:002010-05-06T01:17:58.174-07:00Sand and Stonewrite hurts <br />
in sand<br />
so time <br />
may <br />
blow them away<br />
<br />
write good deeds <br />
in stone <br />
so <br />
forever <br />
they may stayRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-72830978456267290412010-05-05T15:58:00.000-07:002010-05-05T15:58:48.974-07:00In Me I Have a FriendIn me there is a place,<br />
where I am<br />
It is a place<br />
only I know about<br />
One that I have,<br />
always gone to,<br />
<br />
One<br />
that has<br />
allowed<br />
me<br />
to be MY friend<br />
when I didn't<br />
HAVE a friend<br />
One that has kept me occupied<br />
Never alone<br />
Even in a crowd...Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-52807396640023690182010-05-05T15:57:00.000-07:002010-05-05T15:57:15.061-07:00On relationships…Nobody goes missing<br />
Nobody dies<br />
It's just that,<br />
your journey,<br />
with one amnother,<br />
Is at an end...<br />
<br />
Forever?<br />
For the moment?<br />
Who knows...<br />
The answer,<br />
might be just around the bend...<br />
keep moving<br />
you'll find out...<br />
<br />
RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-16975413434958583732010-05-05T15:54:00.000-07:002010-05-05T15:54:38.650-07:00No MapsI wrote this after my father died. I was with him till exactly 2 minutes before he died. I was not destined to take walk beside him the last two minutes of his life. <br />
<br />
No Maps<br />
For a moment,<br />
<br />
close your eyes,<br />
Visualize a dessert<br />
a golden emptiness<br />
stretching everywhere...<br />
<br />
All across this vastness<br />
a tapestry is woven,<br />
a million different tracks,<br />
moving,<br />
crossing,<br />
parting,<br />
always moving...<br />
<br />
Crossroads...<br />
Paths meet,<br />
move together,<br />
sharing a part of their journeys,<br />
giving of themselves,<br />
taking for themselves,<br />
<br />
Then the crossroads<br />
Paths seperate,<br />
move on...<br />
richer for the meeting, yes<br />
But,<br />
Other companions<br />
Await...<br />
<br />
They have met<br />
for a reason...<br />
most likely,<br />
undefined to either<br />
maybe they will know<br />
now,<br />
one day<br />
maybe never...<br />
<br />
Who needs discoveries<br />
to be discovered<br />
or frontiers to me explored<br />
We have this existance to chart<br />
and<br />
there are no maps...<br />
<br />
RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-8722628784891180502010-05-05T15:49:00.000-07:002010-05-05T15:49:50.843-07:00Scattered images....Impressions that may grow to poems... Or then again may not..<br />
<br />
Green, <br />
<br />
On Yellow. <br />
<br />
Red, <br />
On black.<br />
<br />
Fresh <br />
Orange Juice,<br />
<br />
Crispy <br />
Apples,<br />
<br />
Rain quenching <br />
Parched earth,<br />
<br />
Bare feet, <br />
Sun-warmed sand.<br />
Laughter, <br />
Laughed hard…long,<br />
With friends, <br />
Of the heart.<br />
<br />
Crying <br />
For eons, <br />
Over someone, <br />
lost forever…<br />
Remembering them,<br />
Loving them.<br />
Parchment skin… <br />
Of someone whos lived, <br />
a very long time…Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-58647395556758391522010-05-05T15:43:00.000-07:002010-05-05T15:43:31.557-07:00ZINGFor CSG...<br />
<br />
ZING<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
… Of a nip in the air <br />
And the light drizzling rain…<br />
<br />
… Of strawberries and cream <br />
And the pleasure of pain…<br />
<br />
…Of crispy green salads<br />
And stolen desserts…<br />
<br />
… Of long conversations<br />
And satisfying flirts…<br />
<br />
… Of wild imaginings <br />
And forbidden things…<br />
<br />
… You bring my Life…<br />
Its deserved Zing…<br />
<br />
RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-40518052723305019982010-05-05T15:38:00.000-07:002010-05-05T15:38:06.878-07:00APPRECIATIONAPPRECIATION<br />
<br />
<br />
The phone sits there,<br />
Stubbornly silent.<br />
The doorbell <br />
does not ring,<br />
The mailbox <br />
lies empty<br />
<br />
I say <br />
“I understand,<br />
You are too busy to call”<br />
“I will wait till you have more time…”<br />
<br />
I also have a life,<br />
Full of things,<br />
That need doing,<br />
One of those things <br />
Invariably involves <br />
A call to her,<br />
Or a chin up to him, <br />
An email to you, <br />
A letter to them,<br />
A picture, <br />
A gift. <br />
<br />
Just<br />
A Little bit <br />
Of Appreciation <br />
Love,<br />
Laughter,<br />
Caring,<br />
Sharing.<br />
<br />
Just <br />
A little bit <br />
To let you <br />
Know <br />
I remembered you<br />
<br />
Or to share <br />
my life.<br />
<br />
I <br />
Would love<br />
To say <br />
“I understand,<br />
You are too busy to call”<br />
“I will wait till you have more time…”<br />
AND REALLY MEAN IT<br />
<br />
RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-3597364465220122202010-05-05T15:27:00.000-07:002010-05-05T23:05:32.527-07:00My midnight Confidant...A long time ago, before I discovered food writing, I had a midnight confidant who introduced me to blogging. Then this April as I struggled with writing my book (on food), another midnight confidant materialised from the mists of the www and helped me to rediscover the pure joy that writing, can be. This is for him.... and for the long ago confidant that set me on this path... with gratitude.<br />
<br />
<strong><u>My Midnight confidant</u></strong><br />
<br />
You come out of the night<br />
whenever I call<br />
and be the man <br />
I need you to be<br />
<br />
friend of my childhood,<br />
that I never knew,<br />
gentle guide,<br />
that I always needed<br />
<br />
like soft moonbeams <br />
<br />
after twilight <br />
you illuminate <br />
my path<br />
<br />
treading softly <br />
amidst my dreams<br />
gentling my fears<br />
readying me for flight...<br />
<br />
RushinaRushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-74480341555883204012010-04-23T14:03:00.000-07:002011-06-23T14:04:07.680-07:00UniformI remember it so well. A little red and white label, discreetly claiming me, stitched into its collar. Gleaming white, crisply ironed as the first day I saw it. It rested on top of my clothes, in my ready-to-be-shut trunk, that last day of school. <br />
<br />
My first months at Mayo (post the wave of homesickness) are a recollection of tumultuous feeling. It was a period of longing to belong, painful embarrassment and ire at my fate. I remember longing to be normal, invisible, just another, ordinary, white shirt, gray skirt clad girl among the many. However I WAS A FREAK. <br />
<br />
I arrived at Mayo with a trunk, notably containing the total of THREE (One more than required and duly noted by the matron with a disapproving look on her face) sets of home clothes and sundry worldly belongings. On my arrival I was issued the requisite parts of my uniform that came from the school stores. To elucidate, on the first day of Mayo life, my locker contained: 1 pair Ballerina shoes, 1 Dress uniform tie, 4 singlets (2 blue, 2 white) and 8 pairs of socks (4 Dark gray, 4 Dark Blue) with a confounding (to date) white strip on top. On 3 of the 12 empty hangers hung the “civilian” outfits. <br />
<br />
I was the last girl to get my uniform that year. Maybe this was because it was my fate to be taught patience, tolerance and forbearance in this convoluted way OR Maybe it was a result of the chaos that ensues when a man employed to stitch clothes for the erstwhile princely school of Mayo BOYS is suddenly entrusted with the task of putting together uniforms for paltry insignificant GIRLS. (The girls’ school being new, the ancient tailor was borrowed - as were most things - from the well-oiled, 100+ year old machinery of the boys school.) Well whatever the reason it resulted in the most embarrassingly dressed period of my life. <br />
<br />
Obviously it just would not be done, for me to dress in civilian clothes until I got my uniforms. OH NO! that would be sacrilegious (as would be many, many more things in the years to come). Neither could I go about in the same clothes day in and day out (if only). So the home clothes and store issue apparel came together in an amalgamation of outfits bizarre enough to start of a new trend on the catwalks of the world. <br />
<br />
A salwar Kameez and the Games singlets (white or blue) paired with a rotation of jeans and a lace embellished “A line” PURPLE skirt (that my mother insisted I include in my trunk) became my wardrobe. The ensembles were finished OFF with the store issue socks and shoes. To say I stuck out like a sore thumb was an understatement. <br />
<br />
By the time we were in the second month of that term, I chaffed at the “civilian” clothes I had to wear. (Well partially civilian, anyways, considering that I had the right socks and shoes at least.). The prefects gave me black marks for not pulling up my socks (under jeans and purple skirts). My blue singlet was like a beacon amidst the white shirts in class, inviting the teachers to home in on me every time they had a question. Most horrible of all I had to walk through the boys school for swimming practice like that too! <br />
<br />
I lay on my bed berating my fates and contemplating dire measures one hot, dry, summer afternoon when the matron summoned me from my dorm. My Uniforms had finally arrived! Over the weekend the matron redeemed herself over the issue of her disapproval when I joined. She had one of the baijis work double time to label my clothes so that they would be ready for coming week. My locker brimmed over now with the addition of 12 Grey skirts with broad pleats, 12 snowy white shirts and 2 Divided skirts (for games).<br />
<br />
All weekend long I did mental cartwheels! I would be as dull and boring as the other girls now. No special attention would come my way, the camouflage of uniform beckoned. <br />
<br />
Monday morning I donned my armour and went out to face the world. When the bell rang for breakfast lineup I was polishing my shoes at the bench in front of the quadrangle. I caught a quick glimpse of myself in the mirror as we filed out towards the mess. Shoes polished to a high gloss, socks pulled up as far as they could go (probably with my chest puffed out to there with pride) I entered the ranks of anonymity. <br />
<br />
I do not remember anything of that day between that time and rushing to the school building when the end of breakfast bell had rung. I bunked assembly that day (JUST NOT DONE). I had an assignation with a full-length mirror in the first floor toilet in the main school building. (For some reason it was the only full-length mirror in the school at that point.) <br />
<br />
While the whole school was otherwise occupied, away from ridiculing eyes, with the strains of morning prayers ringing in the air, I admired myself in the mirror. I turned this way, I twisted that way, I curtsied, I cat walked, I pirouetted, I simpered, I blew kisses at myself and I smiled. I belonged. <br />
<br />
For the ensuing years of my life at Mayo, I wore that uniform through hot summers and cold winters. With great pride we marched out on public occasions, shirts shining white, skirts crisply ironed basking in the attention of the guests gathered under the rainbow hued shamianas. <br />
<br />
What an anomaly a Uniform is. At once the most celebrated yet the most maltreated garment in ones wardrobe. It gives you an identity but affords anonymity. It commands respect but gets abuse. An institution by itself it leads a life of drudgery. Thrown (into the laundry bag), boiled (in hot water), beaten (by the Dhobi) and is subjected to burning coal (the Iron) before it comes full circle, freshly laundered to your pile to be donned with great pride, fresh smelling, startched, crisp. <br />
<br />
Our uniforms played many roles in our lives. They were Our Identity. Our camouflage “Oh no ma’am that was not me it must have been someone else talking to that boy.” Our plumage, “Yes Mr. XXX you are right we are Mayoites” (spoken with a preen). Never stopping for a moment to think that one, day it would all come to an end. <br />
<br />
And END it did. In retrospect probably faster then I would have wanted it to. <br />
<br />
I remember the last time I saw it. It was the end of my last day at school. I sat on my bed, with it’s counterpane neatly stretched across the four corners, I stared down at my Uniform.Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16342187642205074411noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4821744353613446233.post-49876857153554533632010-04-20T03:08:00.000-07:002010-05-05T23:10:15.300-07:00The Road Less Travelled by...A long time ago, before I discovered food writing, I used to write on other things. When foodwritng came, I quit other writing. For 6 years I have written exclusively on food. Many times along the way I have wanted to write on other things, poems, expressions of opinion or just non food things, but I never gave in. I did not think I was very good at writing on anything other than food. Then this April as I struggled with writing my book (on food), I stared scribblng on othr things....<br />
<br />
Ever had a thought that starts as a little spark and grows into something you would like to talk about to someone... someting worth sharing... well these are some such things... little side trips of the soul.. <br />
<br />
Somtimes roads led ontoroads that do bring you back...<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<strong><u>The Road Not Taken ~ Robert Frost</u></strong><br />
<br />
TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood, <br />
And sorry I could not travel both <br />
And be one traveler, long I stood <br />
And looked down one as far as I could <br />
To where it bent in the undergrowth; <br />
<br />
Then took the other, as just as fair, <br />
And having perhaps the better claim, <br />
Because it was grassy and wanted wear; <br />
Though as for that the passing there <br />
Had worn them really about the same, <br />
And both that morning equally lay <br />
In leaves no step had trodden black. <br />
Oh, I kept the first for another day! <br />
Yet knowing how way leads on to way, <br />
I doubted if I should ever come back. <br />
I shall be telling this with a sigh <br />
Somewhere ages and ages hence: <br />
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— <br />
I took the one less traveled by, <br />
And that has made all the difference.Rushinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03410410539474649922noreply@blogger.com0